When you want to manifest a soulmate or twin flame relationship into your life you must begin by being very clear and specific as to what your objective is.
The main reason most people on the search for love fail is because, they are so caught up in the idea of having a partner, they are not asking some very important questions. When searching for a job, most people are very clear as to what they are looking for. How much money they will be paid, what type of position they want, etc. This results in every resume being sent to a job that they would be happy working in.
When we want to attract a soul mate we must begin to think of it in a similar way to searching for the perfect home or job.
The biggest mistake people can make when trying to attract our soul mate is to settle for less. We will often settle for feeling loved even though things are not quite right. A relationship is a lot like a building a home; you must build the foundation from the bottom up. You must first know yourself well and what it is that you are seeking.
Rev Jennifer Marie Solis has put together this seven day plan to help you manifest your twinflame. It will provide you with exercises and meditations to help you grow spiritually, heal, and put closure to the past. This changes the way you view the world and yourself, helping you understand who you are and what you want in your future partner.
In the first 4 days you will be asking yourself questions that will allow you to understand, heal and let go of the past. This will be a vital part of the plan. These first four days are of self discovery through simple questions that will help you really begin to understand what you truly desire.
Every day set a time to sit down with a notebook and make sure that you will be able to meditate for at least nine minutes and at the most fifteen.
Before beginning say to yourself "The white light of eternal love surround me at this time ". Then read the question of the day three times. This will help focus on the deeper meaning of the question.
After you have meditated, spend at least 10 minutes writing your answers to the question of the day. Explore everything that you felt while meditating. This helps you to understand why you feel and think in a certain way.
What do I like to do for fun?
It is very important to have fun in life so that you may be happy. So ideally you would like a partner that enjoys the same things as you.
What are my beliefs when it comes to family?
One of the most common reasons for problems with a mate is that person’s ideas on how a family structure works or runs. To avoid this first understand your ideas and beliefs.
What are my insecurities?
A big reason that many relationships fail is because the two people in the union suffer from the same insecurities - creating a war zone. When you can understand your insecurities you will be less likely to fall in the trap those insecurities play in your relationships.
What part did I play in the failure of a past relationship?
When we are not aware of the lessons that a past relationship present, you are not able to grow from the experience and really move on.
On the fifth day, read everything that you have written down. Then make a list of all the qualities your soul mate will have.
Please be specific, and I mean specific, you would like a man that is 6'3 with dark hair and with a nice hands and a BMW? Then you need to list this and everything else that you think of; including all that you learned in the four day prior.
Now meditate upon and rewrite the list, adding and taking as the ideas go by. Mediate and visualize the things that you are asking for in your soul mate. Tomorrow you will have a list that will manifest.
Take out your list and fold it three times Saying “I now attract into my life my ideal soul mate, and everything helps this to happen.” Repeat this three times, one time for each fold. Then put the list away in a safe and meaningful place.
How to Recognize a Soulmate when attracted.
When you think you have met your soulmate, this is how to recognize him/her. After you have met, go and take out that list and see how many qualities match your soulmate list. If you have found your soulmate burn the list.
If it is clear this is not a match, don't settle for less! Just repeat day seven’s affirmation while folding the list three times and replacing it safely away.