“Is he or she my soul mate or twin flame, and is this the one?” Many people often ask us questions like this. We would love to help you find out. The tricky part of it all is that we, as psychics, have to feel deep inside the spirit.
We would love to help you find out if you are in fact with your soul mate or twin flame. We believe that you can have a lot of soul mates or a few but just one twin flame.
There are many signs to notice if you are with a soul mate. For example, your connection is so strong that it tends to be co-dependent and dysfunctional. You become your partner's thoughts, eating habits, bad habits and become demotivated. You start to realize that you are acting out one of your parent’s relationship and getting to know your own father or mother. Then you realize you have to disconnect because the relationship is not growing.
The Twin flame however is a different story. You can still feel the strong connection and emotionally empathize with the one. You may not get together right away with this person, or you took space from them. It all depends on their circumstances. Some get together right away, some have to wait because their Twin is hurting themselves. Some do not know who their twin is because they are married to someone else or involved with someone else. The tricky part of the whole thing is that you cannot touch anything tangible with the one. You have to really live your life, focus on giving love back to yourself and learn from your experiences. Patience is not on your best interest list because your too busy morphing into the twin's impatience. Your twin is experiencing a dark phase; meanwhile you’re trying to stay afloat holding the light to the end of the tunnel. There are no rules to relationships so if one story is different; it is because of their paths. Your path is not the same as everyone else.
A lot of people do not realize that they are going parallel with their twin but the experiences may have been in different phases of their lives. The connection is so strong that one minute you could be happy, or think you are, and the moment you think about the twin; you become sad and feel their emotions. For all you know they could be in China.