“My personal experiences show that death is an illusion that some choose to give power to in believing once we die there is no more; however, the truth is that it simply doesn’t exist. Death is merely the transition from one world or dimension into another.” — William Constantine, Spirit Messenger and Ghost Whisperer
Since we are born we begin to die, so in life, there is death. I have learned a lot about life, death, and the afterlife as my work as a communicator with Spirit and ghost whisperer.
In times like these, where death is prominent, between the natural disasters and war I find my message to be that of love and healing. There is a place where souls reside and that the human body is merely a temporary shell that spirit inhabits.
The message is simple, nobody dies alone. You are received by loved ones that have passed on. You are greeted with a loving embrace by familiar faces, open arms, and tenderness. You find yourself comforted by these loved ones that you understand that everything is going to be alright.
In addition, there is the tunnel or the light as some refer to it, a swirling colorful tunnel that embraces you with a feeling of warmth, love, understanding, and forgiveness. Going through the tunnel is a soothing experience and not something to fear.
My insights into the afterlife have taught me that death itself is nothing to be feared. In fact, it is just the opposite, death is a release of all the pain and suffering that may be occurring here on earth. It is merely a passport for the soul to move from this life to the afterlife.
There has been issue of suicides or mass death, which has been brought to my attention, and my insights into the afterlife as a ghost whisperer have taught me that those, whom take their own life, are not condemned to eternal damnation. In fact, they are welcomed by loved ones that have passed on too, they also get the help that they need on the Otherside. There is a support system on the Otherside, and forgiveness is a huge part of it. Also, the support system helps, in situations like Hurricane Katrina where mass life is taken, it helps to counsel and aid those affected.
To give you a better understanding how forgiving the Otherside is; I once communicated with a Spirit that told me that even victims of murder, even serial murders, forgive those that have taken their life. The power of forgiveness is truly amazing, my insights into the afterlife have shown that nobody harbors grudges on the Otherside.
I am often asked what it is like on the Otherside. For some reason this topic is fascinating to the living. I don’t know if it is because they are curious about where they are going to go or if it is more of wondering where their loved ones have gone, maybe it is both. A lot of us just want to be sure that we aren’t going to be left in the ground to become food for worms and recycled back to Earth. Sadly, I must say that this does occur, but on the positive side it only happens to our human shell. My insights into the afterlife as a ghost whisperer show our Spirit has long since left the body by this point, in fact, the Spirit usually leaves the body either shortly after or before death depending on the circumstances.
Contrary to popular opinion, the afterlife isn’t above nor below us, in fact, my experience as a ghost whisperer reveal it co-exists with the world we live in. The Afterlife isn’t just rolling hills and a white mist, like we see in most movies or Hollywood renditions. It does have places that may remind you of Heaven or the Elysian Fields, but it also is home to villages, towns, cities, etc. There are jobs and learning facilities, places to eat and even the occasional bar. It is very much like the world where we live, except without all the violence and anger. From what I understand there is no War on the Otherside(s).
My work as a ghost whisperer reveal multiple dimensions and planes that house various parts of the Spirit World. I have learned that some planes of the Afterlife resemble certain eras within our History, for example there is a plain that would resemble Medieval Times, Victorian times, etc.
When a haunting occurs to us it is modern day, but the Spirit prefers to see the world as it was when they lived. This is not to say that they do not see it how we see it, but it is a mere preference for them to experience it as it is most comfortable to them.
This brings me to another common, related subject, why do some Spirits not cross over? As a ghost whisperer I confirm the answer is this, sometimes if we die a very traumatic and tragic death our soul is very confused and we may not know that we have in fact died. Sometimes, in the case of a murder or suicide, the soul may feel angry that it feels like it has unfinished business to do. It has been known for Spirits to seek those that have done them a severe injustice, like in the case of a murder. Usually in the case of a murder it is the Spirits choice on whether or not they stay or cross over. You have those Spirits who simply chose to not cross over and become residual energies here.
In death it really is those that continue living that suffer because they go through a grieving process, which in my opinion, is the human way of being selfish and wanting that person alive again. Even though, that person is in another place which is a lot better than here, and they are for the most part happy and healthy. Spirit’s do have shoulda’s, coulda’s, woulda’s but realize that they didn’t. I call this Spirit Reflections, things that they have learned after crossing over that they would have done differently here on earth. Yet, they do not mope on the Otherside, wishing they did these things instead they continue to be an active part of our lives by coming in visitation and just being around us. My sessions as a ghost whisperer demonstrate they find great comfort and joy in guiding us through our lives.
No matter how you die, you do not make the journey alone. Please look at death as a continuation of life, a ticket to the afterlife if you will, but not as a punishment or something to fear.